Relationships usually start with hearts and butterflies. Everything is fine and dandy. You agree with each other. But after the “honeymoon” you start to show your opinions, differences and individual personalities. Then you experience a fluctuation in the harmony of the couple. A relationship is tested. If you’re going to have healthy fights, you can really learn from each other. Arguments are an important form of communication. They show individualism, different perspectives and the ability to learn from each other. Fights are not necessarily an indicator of problems in a relationship.
Why do couples who fight love each other more?
This means that you are worried about the other person. Arguments can make us more emotionally charged and show how much we care.
This means that your relationship is alive. Nobody likes a boring atmosphere where there is no intensity and controversy. Some ‘drama’ can keep a relationship alive and active. This kind of drama exposes you to each other’s energy.
This means that you will learn from each other. No one should shy away from learning and trying to discover a new thread of thought or perspective on life. When you argue, you will learn from each other and see yourself from another person’s point of view.
It means you are real with each other. You are not pretending when you argue, as disagreements are expressive. You can be authentic and allow the other person to accept you as you are.
Couples who argue also tend to be passionate. Some couples enjoy intimate moments after an intense fight.
