Dr. Ali Binzair wrote the Tao of Dating for a specific group of people – the intelligent! As a student at Harvard, then as a consultant, Binzair has noticed a phenomenon that is present among the wise, Telegrafi reports. For intelligent people, it is extremely difficult to find and maintain a love relationship. There are many reasons why intelligent people have a harder time finding and keeping love. Below are some of them!
Achievements before connections: Kids who are considered smart and end up in the most prestigious universities in the world are focused on achievements, not connections. This may be due to the fact that their parents desire achievement more. Smart kids are supposed to get good grades, find time to practice piano, learn another instrument, excel in science or math. Growing up focused on achievement, such children have less time to learn how to develop friendships, which is the first step to finding romantic love.
Misconception: Achievements equal Love. Unfortunately, wise people learn that achievement equals love and admiration from peers and parents. They believe that this then turns into romantic encounters.
Safety first: There is something that all intelligent people do, and that is thinking. They think about present and future problems. They analyze everything and this analysis and thinking leads them to think about the real problems in the relationship. It is very difficult to enjoy time with a person if you think about what might happen in the future.
