Seeing a dream with erotic content is an experience that sooner or later happens to everyone. But they are messages that must be interpreted.
Erotic dreams are very common in people. In fact, many people who dream of having sex with a different partner feel guilty and ashamed of how they managed to think such a thing even though it happened in a dream. Of course, everything depends on the content of the dream, but we should never feel embarrassed or afraid.
But they are messages that must be interpreted. Here are some of the most “frequented” dreams. It is confirmed by occasional studies: among women, erotic dreams, together with those of falling from different heights, take the first place as the most watched dreams. Unfortunately, there are still prejudices about such dreams, but experts assure: seeing dreams with red lights is not adolescent behavior at all. Dreaming of sexual intercourse with fantasy is a sign of deep contact with the affective and sexual sphere.
Erotic dreams
Dreams are the basis of reality. Hypnotic doctors, in order to reach the unconscious of a person, make him dream by taking him to a state of induced sleep. Don’t worry too much, the dream revives and frees you. In reality we obey the circumstances, while in the dream we are the ones who choose. Dreams are not wishes, but messages that can be interpreted. If you dream that you are having sex with your brother, this does not mean that you want incest.
Thus, in awakening, there is no need to feel guilty. The meaning of the dream, the situation, the environment, the positions and the roles taken by the protagonists are actually interpreted. Erotic dreams are of great importance to women. At night, what could never be lived during the day is symbolically lived. Sometimes you can really live it, but you feel less satisfaction. Moral prejudices still fall on women, while men are more free sexually. The erotic dream is a kind of honest zone where eroticism travels freely.
Emotions during sexual dreams
The man often dreams of strong, unexpected and exciting hugs. The woman dreams of erotic scenes accompanied by a sweet feeling that involves the whole emotionally and sexually. Excitement yes, but with a sense of total inclusion. According to specialists, in their dreams women also fulfill emotional needs or desires to be affirmed.
Sexuality in women is more complete than in men. Thus, the meaning of erotic dreams is more general. For example, if women dream of making love to a man with a lion’s head in a position where the woman lies down and is overwhelmed by the feeling of reward, she wants to have his attention. The symbol is emotion and need.
Problems
Psychotherapists are alarmed when all dreams are erotic and we see them almost every night, but we don’t remember them during the day because we censor them. Sexuality is a very important area. Its impact on reality is when we wake up feeling very uncomfortable. But specialists say that it is to worry as when you always feel involved in erotic situations, even when you are not involved at all.
Women’s erotic dreams
Having sex with two men
It is a very common erotic dream. One of the men may not participate in the act, but only watch. In any case, she needs to show both of them and herself that she is wanted. Perhaps this arises from the need to be appreciated more. It’s a want and a need: the pleasure of being in the center of attention of the male universe. The two men represent the two sides of sex, gentle and aggressive. She needs affirmation.
Having sex with a stranger
Very frequent. This dream starts from the foundation of our sexuality, it takes us to the roots of pleasure: it is not friends, it is not love, it does not infiltrate anything. It is the result of a strong attraction that leaves no guilt. This is a classic erotic dream and it reassures you: the unknown does not judge you, it is like a blank paper, where you can throw all your unspoken needs. This has the strongest erotic value than the others, because it allows women to live (in the dream) a finally primitive sexuality without prejudice.
Being watched when you have sex with your partner
In women, the exhibitionist element is stronger than in men. In this dream, the woman needs to be accepted, appreciated, confirmed. She wants to become an object of desire and attention for others who see her. The meaning, however, can vary depending on the identity. Often in the erotic dreams of teenagers, the spectators are the parents: she is looking to have their attention.
Having sex with a woman
If a woman dreams that she has sex with another woman, it is not a sign of homosexuality. It is only the need to explore oneself through another similar figure. Just like it was a game of mirrors. In fact, it is a very natural dream, it is basically caressing and not aggressive sex, a desire to be accepted and convincing. It hides some fear of male judgment: whereas a woman cannot judge another sexually.
Men’s erotic dreams
Dreaming about having group sex
A very common erotic dream. Group sex is dreamed of, because there you can lose your identity. Nobody knows you. Bring out that true part of yourself, natural and primitive, unconditioned by morality and civilization. It is a form of irresponsibility to allow yourself to jump into a fray, do what you want, muddy the waters and lose your identity. In a group you can do what you couldn’t do in the conditions of reality and in the conditions of solitude.
Having sex with a celebrity
The most pleasant of erotic dreams. It’s sweet, confident, a little childish, it brings out that immature part of yourself, that part so childish. Having a celebrity make love to you makes you feel important and wanted. This is one of those erotic-not-erotic dreams. Such dreams are seen in the period of adolescence or at the beginning of crises in the couple.
Having sex with a colleague
It’s a sign of a routine that’s killing you, and having sex with a colleague is invigorating, brightening up something dull. A dream defined as very “healthy”. It is related to the professional sphere, above all if the colleague is a superior.
