Once the butterflies in your stomach start to go away, you enter a new phase of the relationship where you both feel comfortable around each other. If you’re not careful, you can get too comfortable and forget why you’re in a relationship.
It’s not always the big reasons that end relationships; sometimes small reasons are enough to end a love relationship. Below you have some of the simplest mistakes that couples make, but that can destroy your relationship.
Neglect: Connections are vibrant things that require attention and care every day.
Think of your relationship as a garden: if you only maintain it when you’re in the mood for it, then your garden will definitely fail. You must plant and water the garden every day. The connection is the same.
Holding grudges: Forgiveness is an important process not only in love relationships, but in all aspects of life. People make mistakes. If you can’t let go of your anger after your partner has apologized and it’s been a while, then you’ll have trouble finding happiness. If you have told your partner that you have forgiven him, then do not bring up the past again.
You don’t spend quality time with each other: We’re talking about quality, not quantity. The number of hours you spend in each other’s presence is less important than what you do when you are together. Try to spend more quality time together, going on romantic dates, walking together, or having deep conversations.
